Though this book has been written for tops, or dominant partners, it's equally good reading for submissives (otherwise known as bottoms) as well. Exploring the BDSM fetish with humor, facts, and safety as a priority, this book will help you to realize your own fantasies so that you can start putting them into actions. Focusing on consent, sexual needs, and other critical aspects of B&D/S&M, this text should be required reading for anyone looking to enter the scene.