Masturbating Using Objects
Not all masturbation sessions have to involve the use of your hands and in this section of the e-book I want to talk about masturbating using objects. The most common objects used and dildos and vibrators.
If you haven’t tried using a vibrator or dildo you may well be surprised by one. These sex toys work on two levels. First of all they introduce you to a new way of stimulating your erotic zones and secondly it removes the finger sensations that you have become used to.Vibrations are very different to stroking and it may take a little time to get used to. If you are going to purchase a vibrator I might suggest that you look for one that is relatively quite otherwise the loud buzzing noise can be distracting. Another feature to look for is a power/speed control.
When you have purchased your vibrator you should try using it at first just like you would your fingers. Many women find that the vibrations allow them to achieve very powerful orgasms very quickly. Women who have never been able to achieve orgasms before discover them for the first time using vibrators.
When using your vibrator try using the different power ranges, don’t just use it on the highest level that you can bear, vary the power throughout your session for maximum results. A vibrator can help to bring another dimension to your orgasms.
Vibrators are not something that you should feel ashamed about using. Many women hide their vibrators somewhere in their bedrooms to avoid any unnecessary embarrassment.
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Can You Become Addicted, To Your Vibrator?
Many women now are expressing concern about becoming addicted to their vibrator. No matter how many times you use your vibrator, you will still crave the touch, the conversation, the warmth of your partner and the intimacy of sexual expression. There is nothing wrong with using your toy…in fact, you should use it as much as you desire. Here’s why:
An orgasm is an intense, prolonged muscle spasm in the sexual organs. Like anything else, it gets better with practice. The more orgasms you have the more you tone these muscles and the easier it will be to continue to have orgasms (with or without the use of your toy) and the more intense they will be.
You are not born with perfect abs or a perfect butt–you have to work out to shape and tone those areas. Your reproductive system is at a serious disadvantage from birth because it doesn’t start to get a workout until much later in life than your other muscles. This is one major reason why most women have more intense orgasms in their late 20s and on–they have had time to “exercise” these muscles.
My suggestion would be to use your vibrator as much as you want. Your ability to orgasm will increase and your desire for your boyfriend will also increase as you find it easier to orgasm with just him. With an open mind, he will learn to appreciate your vibrator just as much as you do because it will help take the pressure off of him to always “hit a home run”. As he suffers less from “performance anxiety” you will both enjoy lovemaking more!
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Quick Self-Pleasure Tips
The use of other aids can help a women gain even more pleasure from a little self-pleasure alone time or with a partner. There are many different tools and techniques that can enhance the pleasure all-round. There is the obvious and also some tips that require a little more dexterity.
1. Vibrators can be big help as they will allow you lessen some of the manual labour involved so that you can concentrate more on the enjoyment. The use of a vibrator can provide precise, powerful physical stimulation to the clitoris and gives the user a lot of command over the excitement.
2. Water can really help self-pleasure and assist a women learn more about herself. A good tip is to lie back with your legs spread in a bath with a shower hose and then directing the stream of water gently on to your clitoris. Start slowly and then play with the pressure, then pulsation and finally the warmth. If you don’t have a shower a trickier but possible method is to slide your bum over the drain so that your legs are up in the air and the genitals under the tap or a little bit easier use Jacuzzi jets if you have them.
3. Why not try rubbing against a something perhaps. You may use a soft pillow, a piece of furniture or a dildo.
4. Speaking of dildos they really benefit a girl when she is self-pleasuring because they can be a delightful complement to clitoral masturbation because they offer the completeness of penetration but can also be used to incite the G-Spot.
Life is all about experimentation and discovering more about whom you are and why stop when it comes to exploring your own body. Have fun and why not get a vibrator. One survey in a glossy magazine stated that 25% of all professional women between 25-34 years of age carry a vibrator in their bag at all times.
The body of a woman is a complicated thing. A woman has many erogenous zones and the only way to discover them all is with experimentation. Ladies an orgasm happens between the ears and not the legs. It is up to every girl individually to understand her own body. If she cannot then how can she expect her partner to when it comes to love making. If a woman wants satisfaction then experimentation through self pleasure is the only way for her to ever truly find the ultimate climax.
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Female Masturbation Techniques - Spice Up Your Love Life
It is important to know that a woman does not need a man to make her get turned on and have a orgasm. There are some great techniques a woman can use with masturbation that will help them achieve a mind blowing orgasm. It is always good to be in touch with your body and know what turns you on the most.
A lot of woman use the shower head as a great tool for masturbation because a great pulsating head and the heat form the water can make for awesome stimulation. You can find a great shower head at your local hardware store and make sure you get one that has many settings.
Another great item that you can use to stimulate your clitoral area is a tennis ball. You need to place the ball between your legs and lay flat on your stomach. Then you can move up and down until you feel the sensation of the fuzzy ball against your clitoris.
You may have a situation were you are out in the car and you can not wait to get back to your home. You can use your panties to help get to a climax. Just make sure the main area is over the clitoral area and you will get an added bonus of erotica because you are in public and may be seen.
Remember that there are many guides that are available that will give you great secrets and tricks to achieving a mind blowing orgasm and you are in control of your ultimate pleasure.
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Vibrator Guide for Men
Looking for someone else? One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that their partner, boyfriend, husband, whatever bought them the biggest vibrator or dildo that they had ever seen. And while the common thought is that bigger is better, this isn’t always the case for every woman.
Some women aren’t designed for that kind of load capacity, so you’re going to need to think a little more compact, perhaps. Shoving something big into something that is small isn’t pleasurable in the least bit. And the sad part is that a lot of the women won’t even say anything because they don’t want to offend your choice. Why make these poor ladies suffer? Be sensible about size unless you know she can take it! For some os us, bigger is indeed better… Look at yourself. Yes, unzip your pants and look at what your woman is already accustomed to feeling inside her. Be honest, this isn’t the time to start bragging about the size, length, whatever, no one is looking but you. That’s the size that you want to choose for a vibrator for your woman. Slightly bigger is okay too, but don’t go for the foot in diameter version. Her eyes may widen when she sees it, but that’s in fear, not anticipation. Looking for yourself?
A penis pump can be a great way to stimulate yourself when you’re flying solo for a while, but you have to give this purchase a little thought as well. A lot of these pumps are not designed for all sizes of men. You want to read the package carefully to see what the design is. Sometimes there is a cup at the end of the penis pump that will catch your juices as well as stimulate the tip of the penis. Be a little wary of the texture that a pump has - it can be irritating if the material sticks to places where it just shouldn’t stick. So use LOTS of lube! Does that still seem stimulating? The lashings of lube sensation can be very different if you haven’t tried it… If you’re here online, you’ll want to read the reviews on the site. These folks aren’t paid to give their opinions, so you’re sure to read the truth. And if you’re still not sure about the product, ask!
The touch, the feel of vibrators
When it comes to vibrators, the material can make all of the difference. It can be smooth or textured in the same way as a real penis. There are also others that come with special textures and grooves for her ultimate pleasure. These are supposed to hit the g-spot and though each woman is different, they can help in other ways. If you end up buying a vibrator, a little lube can help here as well.
The extras that matter
Oh, and I almost forgot— why not find a vibrator that’s waterproof and has a lot of speed settings. Waterproof comes in handy because it can be used in pools and bathtubs. And who wouldn’t like a little pick me up in the morning shower? Or for the ultimate private experience, use the (waterproof models only!) vibrator in the tub—it’s ultra quiet and discreet. Speed settings help to control the pleasure of the experience, plus the vibrator can then be used on the clitoris as well. With a little lube and a good vibrator, the woman can feel waves of orgasms—repeated over and over. Yes, multiple orgasms are possible—especially with a good vibrator. And when the man has picked out a great vibrator for himself or for his partner, they’re going to be thanked in very special ways.
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Do you have a sex chair in your bedroom? If you don’t, you should. You will have some incredible adventurous sex.
You may be imagining some strange contraption that you’ll have to hide in the closet so the kids or relatives won’t ask embarrassing questions.
The sex chair I am suggesting is one you can leave in plain site and feel totally comfortable doing so. And it will make a nice addition to your bedroom décor.
What makes this chair the ‘Amazing Electrifying Sex Chair’ is the amazing and electrifying sex you will have using it.
The ‘Amazing Electrifying Sex Chair’ is just an ordinary leather upholstered parsons chair. But the kind of sex you will enjoy using it will be anything but ordinary!
A leather upholstered parsons chair has many things about it making it an ‘Amazing Electrifying Sex Chair’. First the padding and leather upholstery make it very comfortable for variety of positions (more on that later). The leather quickly warms to your body temperature and is easily wiped clean of any personal lubricants, unlike fabric.
A typical leather parsons chair weighs less than 20 lbs, so it is easily moved about your bedroom as needed. And a leather parson’s chair can be purchased at most home furnishing stores for around $150, a lot less than some other ’sex furniture’.
So what kind of amazing and electrifying sex can you have with this chair? Here are few examples:
Share a lusty lap dance. He sits while she straddles him. You are both face-to-face and you both have your hands free so you can enjoy prolonged kissing, fondling and foreplay. She is in control and can vary the speed, angle and thrusting motion. She can grip the back of the chair to help her maneuver and vary her movements from up and down using her legs to swaying back and forth with her hips to grind her groin against him.
This freedom to move also allows her to lean back while holding on to the chair back with one hand for support and get greater G-spot stimulation while he caresses her body and kisses and sucks on her breasts. She then can use the other hand to stimulate her clitoris.
About face! And just like that, she can stand up, turn around and sit back down and continue as before. But now he can enjoy her rear view, fondle her bottom; grasp her waist, and reach around to fondle her breasts and clitoris while she enjoys the pleasure of rear entry with her in control.
On the chair doggy style. There’s not just one rear entry position you can enjoy with the ‘amazing electrifying sex chair’. The chair is ideal for some doggy style action as she kneels on the chair seat while gripping the back for support and he stands behind her, grasps her waist and enters her.
When you are both satisfied and finished with the ‘Amazing Electrifying Sex Chair’ you can wipe it down and place it in the corner of your bedroom where is assumes it’s identity as a humble and innocent leather parsons chair.
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For more ways to enjoy each other, download my free guide, ‘Your Tips to a Healthy Happy Sex Life Guide’ here: ‘Your Tips to a Healthy Happy Sex Life Guide’ David Christian Solomon is an independent writer/researcher dedicated to helping people enjoy healthy happy lives through the use of nutrition, exercise and lifestyle. He is the author of the Easy Orgasm Diet: How to Restore, Revive and Release Your Orgasms book which details how to use nutrition and simple exercises to naturally increase a woman’s arousal, desire and enjoyment of sex. |
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