Can You Become Addicted, To Your Vibrator?
Many women now are expressing concern about becoming addicted to their vibrator. No matter how many times you use your vibrator, you will still crave the touch, the conversation, the warmth of your partner and the intimacy of sexual expression. There is nothing wrong with using your toy…in fact, you should use it as much as you desire. Here’s why:
An orgasm is an intense, prolonged muscle spasm in the sexual organs. Like anything else, it gets better with practice. The more orgasms you have the more you tone these muscles and the easier it will be to continue to have orgasms (with or without the use of your toy) and the more intense they will be.
You are not born with perfect abs or a perfect butt–you have to work out to shape and tone those areas. Your reproductive system is at a serious disadvantage from birth because it doesn’t start to get a workout until much later in life than your other muscles. This is one major reason why most women have more intense orgasms in their late 20s and on–they have had time to “exercise” these muscles.
My suggestion would be to use your vibrator as much as you want. Your ability to orgasm will increase and your desire for your boyfriend will also increase as you find it easier to orgasm with just him. With an open mind, he will learn to appreciate your vibrator just as much as you do because it will help take the pressure off of him to always “hit a home run”. As he suffers less from “performance anxiety” you will both enjoy lovemaking more!
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Kat Williams |
